"When I stopped trying to make other peoples’ acceptance a precondition for my well-being, it took a lot of weight off my shoulder." This, I think, is one of the first things I'd want my future children to know.
Agree – if I had to put together a list of life lessons learned, this one would be among the top 5. I think it's hard for children and young adults to "learn" this, as their experience in Western society teaches them quite the opposite, but parents can definitely help with adapting such a mindset.
I have been navigating the labyrinth of minimalism myself for the past seven years, and I must admit, Stephan, your book and articles have greatly enriched my journey. The challenge of reducing possessions, particularly clothing, to a valuable and cherished level is no small feat.
The concept of the "Capsule Wardrobe" was an initial stepping stone for me. It allowed a careful curation of no more than 35 items, each one loved and versatile enough to mix with the others. This wasn't just about decluttering; it was about retaining a sense of fashion and personal style that resonated with my personality.
As someone who constantly travels for both business and pleasure, the intersection of functionality and style is paramount. Your unique approach to clothing strategy, which emphasizes this balance, has provided new insights and ideas. Awaiting eagerly your next thoughts and experiences.
Thanks Tanya, I'm super glad to hear this. I like the idea of a capsule wardrobe as well. I think I went down to 50 items at one point, but abandoned the spreadsheet a bit later.
Re: the intersection of functionality and style. Personally, I follow the old Bauhaus dogma that form follows function – I learned to think of items as beautiful that serve a certain purpose for me.
Since I am unintentionally also part of this fashion style, I am pretty sure your friend meant GORPcore (good ol raisin & peanuts).
Asked my friend, and you're completely right! Edited the article accordingly.
"When I stopped trying to make other peoples’ acceptance a precondition for my well-being, it took a lot of weight off my shoulder." This, I think, is one of the first things I'd want my future children to know.
Agree – if I had to put together a list of life lessons learned, this one would be among the top 5. I think it's hard for children and young adults to "learn" this, as their experience in Western society teaches them quite the opposite, but parents can definitely help with adapting such a mindset.
I have been navigating the labyrinth of minimalism myself for the past seven years, and I must admit, Stephan, your book and articles have greatly enriched my journey. The challenge of reducing possessions, particularly clothing, to a valuable and cherished level is no small feat.
The concept of the "Capsule Wardrobe" was an initial stepping stone for me. It allowed a careful curation of no more than 35 items, each one loved and versatile enough to mix with the others. This wasn't just about decluttering; it was about retaining a sense of fashion and personal style that resonated with my personality.
As someone who constantly travels for both business and pleasure, the intersection of functionality and style is paramount. Your unique approach to clothing strategy, which emphasizes this balance, has provided new insights and ideas. Awaiting eagerly your next thoughts and experiences.
Thanks Tanya, I'm super glad to hear this. I like the idea of a capsule wardrobe as well. I think I went down to 50 items at one point, but abandoned the spreadsheet a bit later.
Re: the intersection of functionality and style. Personally, I follow the old Bauhaus dogma that form follows function – I learned to think of items as beautiful that serve a certain purpose for me.